Dear sis., As a single young lady this is the perfect time to develop a radical relationship with Christ. Give your whole heart to Him and chase after Him with everything you have. One day, you will look to the side of you and a young man will be running alongside you.....after Christ! Together, you two will pursue Christ and make a difference in this world for God's glory! This young man won't try to "encourage" you to slow down. And you all WILL NOT trip each other up. Instead together your marriage will be what God intended all along.....A MINISTRY! So sister.... STAY FOCUSED! Keep God first! Passionately pursue Christ and give Him your whole heart! Hide your heart in Christ so that the man that God has for you will first seek Him in order to FIND YOU!